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Ashley here!
Want a cheat sheet to either 1). Get your ex back or 2). Moving on and being HAPPY about it?
Yes, I bet you do. Because you just want to feel better either way!
Here are 5 levels you must "master". Each level stacks on top of each other. Make sure to fully grasp each level before advancing.
If you want to be "Yoda" that is.
Level 1 - Accept the break up..it’s OVER but that’s a GOOD thing. aka move on. It doesn’t mean you won’t talk to your ex anymore, it doesn’t mean they will never come back. It simply means you AND your ex must get on the same page, and both agree that old relationship is dead, and good riddance, it didn’t work in the first place.
Level 2 - Remove their Resistance by putting SPACE between you. You must get away from each other, to forget the bad times, to remember the good, to look at your relationship from a 50,000 feet perspective. To appreciate the greens of the forest, and not nitpick apart the trees.
Level 3 - Break the ice by planting a SEED. A special message that resets the roles of your relationship. You’re not bf/gf, you’re not friends. You’re not even “exes” in the bad sense of the word. You’re just back to NEUTRAL. Like a long lost friend who you used to be very close with. Your message should give value, NOT take or put any pressure on your ex. No questions. Just positive statements. Just let your ex know, you’re cool with everything, you’re past it, you’re over the past.
Level 4 - The REAL work. “Reinvention” - get back to who you are and who you want to become. Start to enjoy loving being alone, loving being single, do what you used to do, be who you used to be, fall back in love with you.
Level 5 - BOSS level - Become DETACHED to the outcome. You should NATURALLY become less and less dependent on the outcome. When you remove the importance of outcome and you just start ENJOYING the moment, the present, you start being happy, confident and extremely attractive. Here’s where true revelation begins.
FINAL VERDICT
If your ex shows interest again - think long and hard if you SHOULD get back together. Once you reach BOSS level, you can go either way, date others OR date your ex, either path you choose, you’re still DATING ALL OVER AGAIN (old relationship is dead).
Want to know what to do next? If you still want your ex back, you'll need to know how to approach them in a way that won't scare them away. Go to:
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(Disclaimer: I do NOT advocate getting an ex back who was emotionally abusive, who didn't respect you, didn't love you or didn't deserve your love. If they treated you badly and that's why you're no longer together, consider this as a BLESSING and a "You dodged a bullet"-moment, in all cases above you should NOT try to get them back).
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